Monthly Archives: August 2021

Without Emotion

Have you ever prepared yourself for a conversation you expected would be emotionally upsetting?  When I did this a few days ago I took great care deciding what I wanted to say and took the time I would need to be able to speak the words calmly so the other party would receive a message that sounded confident and sure. …

The Equation

Sometimes the light bulb comes on and suddenly I see something I needed to see differently.  When the long term relationship I was in ended by cheating, I dove into reading everything I could find about men; what they want, how they think, communication styles and how to communicate effectively.  The truth of why I did this is I thought…